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Unrealistic goals. Smells nice. Has money.
That's the actual reason why so many are actually in their mid -30s and they are still single.
Hmnnn don't get it twisted. Being above 30 and still single is not a problem. It's not a bad thing.
As a matter of fact, it's better to be single than to be in a toxic relationship
And it's also better to be single than to be in an abusive marriage.
But you see, the main reason why many are above the age of 30 and they are still single
is because they have a lot of unrealistic goals
and many never get to learn.
You see a lady and she's like,
I want a guy who is rich. Has money. Smells nice. Blah blah blah blah. Imagine. Imagine.
You want a guy who is rich. Has money. Smells nice.
C'mon. Think of it for once.
Would a guy who is rich. Has money. Smells nice and all that also wants you.
The way you are. Because let's be sincere with ourselves.
What exactly are you also bringing to the table?
Do you also have money?
Or you want a guy who has money, so you can spend his money?
You see, the way we see things these days is actually very confusing.
What many of us want in a relationship are things we ourselves cannot even give in the same relationship.
hmnnnn, so it doesn't look as if maybe I have decided to pick women and attack them for no reason.
let's take the issues of guys who are also still in their 30s, some even 40, and they are still single.
Not yet married. Now, the reason why many of you are actually single is because you do have unrealistic goals too.
Oh I want to have a house. before I get married.
Oh, I want to have two, three cars before I get married.
Oh, I want to have everything figured out before I get married.
Oh, I want to have enough to take care of my family before I get married.
Now, one thing many of you fail to realize is this.
Nothing would ever be enough for you to settle down if you have that mindset.
And the disastrous part of it is you can actually end up building so much.
And you'll get to meet the wrong person who would actually like what you have to offer,
but not like you yourself.
And in most cases, that person would make you ruin everything you've worked so hard for.
In some cases, it's different.
You get to meet people who would pretend they love you,
but they're only in for what you've got.
And that very person might end up eliminating you so they could have all you've got to themselves
and wherever it is they are actually in love with.
It's actually a very (hmnnn) delicate topic but I like to say this, unrealistic goals can be very dangerous.
And again, one thing that adds to this problem is the fact that some, not even some, many of you
don't let me say many of you, many of us
are actually single because we are getting what married people should actually get.
We are getting what is actually meant for married people alone and so since we are enjoying the pecs without being actually committed, there is really no reason to be committed.
We all want to play it safe, unfortunately.
Life doesn't really work that way.
At the long run, we get to begin to regret certain things
because one way or the other, you get tired of yourself.
One day or the other, they get to move on.
One way or the other, there's nothing binding you with them.
So it's our time to begin to look at ourselves and not just look at ourselves, equity.
Let's be what we want others to be in a relationship.